ONLINE COURSE
How to Find & Vet Potential Play Partners


Finding and vetting potential play partners is a multi-step process aimed at ensuring compatibility, safety, and mutual respect in the kink and BDSM communities.


The Story of Your Transformation Starts Here.

The Problem You’re Facing

You’ve entered the kink community, excited but uncertain. How do you find someone you can trust? How do you avoid making mistakes that could harm your reputation, safety, or emotional well-being? You might feel lost in a world with its own language, rules, and expectations. You want to explore, but you don’t know where to start—or who to start with.

You’re not alone. Most people face these challenges when they first step into the kink community.

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The Guide You’ve Been Looking For

Welcome to “How to Find and Vet Potential Play Partners” by SirKnottyDan. With years of experience as a respected community leader, SirKnottyDan has navigated this exact journey and helped thousands of people like you find their way. He’s here to guide you step-by-step through building trust, finding the right partners, and creating safe, meaningful connections.

The Plan to Your Success

This course breaks down your path into actionable steps:

  • Understand the Kink Community – Learn the unwritten rules and how to build a reputation that opens doors.
  • Find Potential Partners – Master where to look, how to approach events, and connect with the right people.
  • Vetting for Safety and Compatibility – Develop the skills to ensure trust, consent, and alignment before engaging in play.
  • Communicate Effectively – Build deeper connections through honesty, empathy, and respectful boundaries.
  • Navigate Events with Confidence – Prepare for and excel at munches, socials, and workshops while maintaining your privacy and reputation.
  • Embrace Safety and Growth – Learn how to protect yourself emotionally and physically while creating space for transformative experiences.
  • The Transformation You’ll Experience
By the end of this course, you’ll go from feeling unsure and hesitant to being confident, informed, and ready to engage meaningfully in the kink community. You’ll know how to find partners who respect your boundaries, communicate effectively, and align with your desires.

No more guesswork. No more risk of falling into unsafe or incompatible situations.

Instead, you’ll step into the kink community with clarity, trust, and the tools to create connections that lead to fulfilling and magical experiences.

Your Mission . . .

should you choose to accept it is 

to become equipped with the knowledge and tools to find compatible play partners while ensuring a foundation of trust, safety, and mutual respect.

Within 30 Days!

Take the first step toward transforming your kink experience by enrolling in “How to Find and Vet Potential Play Partners" course.

Whether you’re brand-new or looking to refine your approach, this course is your guide to navigating, finding a partner, and vetting with confidence, trust, and joy.

The community is waiting for you. Will you step in?

$15 Gives You 30-Days Access to Course

Deep and Thorough (How to Find & Vet Potential Play Partners Course)

May 1, 2025

I’m giving this course on How to find and vet a potential play partner 5 Stars because it is excellent. It is an in depth course which will definitely equip you how to ask the questions necessary from prior play partners to see how they will match up with you to achieve a good outcome and experience a great scene or play. The best part is the questions that are given are sent to your email so you can have them to refer back to when talking to a person about a person you are vetting. It also gives different information on where to find up coming events, how to use different apps and lots of other great info that was very helpful. Most importantly to ask yourself the same questions to be respectful, kind and courteous to others and most importantly why should someone want to be a partner with you.

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KJ

Response from All Tied Up San Diego

Thank you for that very thorough and articulate review KJ!

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